For the Love of Moms: The Art and Life in Motherhood

mom at the beach putting sunscreen on

Every artist takes stock of their portfolio with a careful eye to detect patterns and themes that emerge in their work.  In my work, I see motherhood.  I can’t tell you how many times I have heard mothers say, “I don’t have any photos of myself with my family” or “I hate getting my photo taken” or “I’ll book a session when I lose XX pounds.”  From personal experience (self included), moms are incredibly hard on themselves.  The world tells mothers, “enjoy every minute!” and “make the most of every day!” and whatever other bullshit mantras we are supposed to follow while being exhausted and covered in crumbs.  Is motherhood beautiful??  Yes.  Is it hard??  HELL YES.

I have been mothering for nearly 16 years, and 14 of them have been spent mothering beside some incredible women, the kind who build you up when you need it and are there with a snarky joke about parenting when you need a laugh.  This is a story about one of those women.  We made plans to take photos of her day with her four sons as a “day in the life” but while editing, I realized that my images tell a different story . . . one about a mom.  She feeds them breakfast, takes care of the dog, organizes the schedules, gathers the laundry, drags the crap to the beach, gets slapped around in the water by four boys, drags all the crap home from the beach, and picks up everyone’s wet swimsuits at the end of the day.  Mothering is hard, and tedious, and completely thankless.  

Who, but a mother, can understand how hard and beautiful it is, all at the same time?  In a world that screams “LOOK AT ME!”, motherhood is a radical act of love, poured out over our children.  We don’t always see it that way.  It’s impossible to see the narrative mothering tells the world, unless we photograph it for mothers to see themselves differently.  Here is a gift to my beautiful friend, photos of her motherhood, her radical love, her beauty, her hard work, and her joy.  Jeanne, I’m so lucky to call you friend.

mom cooking breakfast
serving breakfast
waking up kids at home
waking up kids during summer break
walking the dog in margate, NJ
organizing practice schedules
kids on summer break playing video games
mom waking up son to eat breakfast
"oh the places you'll go" to the laundry room
kids making rainbow loom bracelets
boys playing together quietly in their bedroom
solving a Rubik's cube
climbing on the countertops
teasing the dog while mom is getting ready for the beach
boogie boards and skim boards in the beach cart
mom bringing kids and gear to the beach in Margate
getting kids to the beach in Margate, NJ
carrying bags to the beach
mom and son setting up chairs at the beach in Margate
mom putting on sunscreen on kids
mom putting sunscreen on oldest son
breaching the ocean in Margate, NJ underwater photography
kids playing in the water in Margate
mom and son swimming together in Margate
mom and sons swimming together in Margate
mom jumping the waves with her son
mom jumping the waves with her youngest son in Margate NJ
getting money for the ice cream cart on the beach
ice cream cart at the beach in Margate, NJ
mom with sons at the beach playing soccer and eating ice cream
playing soccer on the beach
waiting for kids to leave the beach when they aren't listening
mom carrying all the gear home from the beach
swim suits and sandals left out to rinse

Sunset Senior Session

Senior session at sunset ocean city New Jersey

There are so many milestones in life that deserve to be recognized, and following tradition, I photographed a group of friends entering their senior year of high school together. What does not follow tradition for this session is the black sweetheart neckline prop and pearls borrowed from grandmothers seen in every high school yearbook from the 1950’s to present. I love traditions. But I also love showing people how to break them. This session was one of my favorites to date, because of their friendship. I can clearly remember how important my best friends were to me in those late high school years, and we grew into women who love each other just as much now as we did then. With so much excitement ahead of them, it felt so right to slow down and document where they are right now, celebrating their last year of school in their home town by the beach.

For anyone considering a session for high school seniors, check the slideshow at the end of the post to see how we incorporated some lifestyle images (very lightly posed) into this specific session. I loved this session so much and the sunset did not disappoint.

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Sunset Senior Session documentary photography
best friends photography session 2021 ocean city
documentary senior photography session
Sunset session ocean city NJ
friends swimming in ocean city nj
Senior photo session class of 2022
Senior photo session class of 2022 Sunset in OCNJ
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Water photography sessions OCNJ
best friends senior session ocean city NJ
Senior portrait session OCNJ
Sunset swim in Ocean City New Jersey
Egg Harbor Township High School Senior Class of 2022
friends celebrating summer ocean city
Sunset swimming with friends at Longport Bridge OCNJ
Documentary family photographer OCNJ
Friends swimming in the bay in Ocean City NJ
Sunset water session back flips
sunset swimming and back flips ocean city New Jersey
Seconds before the sunset in Ocean City NJ Senior Photo Session

Check the full slideshow here for more of this session!

Taco Tuesday at Peace of Wood in Ocean City, New Jersey

Peace of Wood local business Ocean City New Jersey

Peace of Wood, 345 West Avenue in Ocean City, NJ, is a beautiful combination of surf shop, art gallery, and paint studio created by Kristina and Marshall Young, who just opened their new location this summer. This laid back space is full of locally made products + artwork and has a full calendar of events open to the public, including Taco Tuesday, Bongos and Bowls, and Paint + Paddle (check their Instagram for updated events). I’m lucky enough to live just a few blocks from their new location, so here is a little glimpse of the community + beauty at Peace of Wood.

Ocean City Peace of Wood Art Gallery Surf Shop
Peace of Wood Taco Tuesday music painting
kids drumming at Peace of Wood Ocean City
Live music at Peace of Wood OCNJ
Painting sessions at Peace of Wood on West Ave
Peace of Wood Paint Studio owner Kristina Young
Kids painting at Peace of Wood in Ocean City
Kids making music on Taco Tuesday at Peace of Wood
Baby dancing to live music at Peace of Wood
Mom and son hugging and playing music
Peace of Wood Ocean City paint studio dogs welcome
Peace of Wood surf and art space in Ocean City New Jersey family night Taco Tuesday

Rides + Waves: An Afternoon in the Life in OCNJ

Nothing beats a summer afternoon at the boardwalk, followed by a cool down in the ocean. It was a day smack dab in the middle of a heat wave, but with a cool breeze + ice cream, it was the perfect summer day. We started out at Gillian’s Wonderland Pier for a few rides before heading for pizza at Manco + Manco. Then, ice cream at Kohr Brothers (the best soft serve ever) followed by a late afternoon swim. For a two hour session, that’s a perfect amount of ground to cover.

When talking about documentary sessions, a lot of times I get the question, “but what do you want me to do?” That’s the beauty of hiring a documentary family photographer, because my response is always, “just be yourself and have fun with your family.” That’s it. Be yourself. Live your life. Enjoy your family. Laugh when a kid does something inappropriate. Roll your eyes when your baby arches her back and rips her bow off her head and throws her pizza to the seagulls, because that is real life. And nothing is more beautiful than real life.

Questions about documentary family photography? Email hello@laurengayeski.com. Want to see more of my work? Follow me on Instagram.

Gillian's Wonderland Pier Ocean City New Jersey
Amusement rides in Ocean City New Jersey Family Photographer
Gillian's Wonderland Pier family documentary session
Wonderland Pier train ride Ocean City New Jersey
Boardwalk rides and ice cream in Ocean City New Jersey
Ocean City boardwalk rides with family photographer
motherhood moment at Wonderland Pier in OCNJ
Pizza on the boardwalk in Ocean City NJ
Manco and Manco pizza Ocean City New Jersey
Manco and Manco pizza on the boardwalk in OCNJ
Kohr Bros ice cream on the boardwalk in Ocean City New Jersey
boardwalk rides ice cream ocean city New Jersey
Getting ready for the beach in Ocean City New Jersey
Heritage surf shop boogie boards in Ocean City New Jersey
going to the beach in ocean city New Jersey
baby running in the sand in ocean city New Jersey
afternoon beach day in the life session

Indian Run: In the Studio with Musician + Producer Shane Becker

music production synthesizers typology

If this pandemic has been good for one thing, it has forced people to be home and explore alternative ways to complete work projects, keep making art, and generating a living. For musicians, especially, the world of performing came to a grinding halt with little opportunity to collaborate with other artists due to travel restrictions. But it’s also led to creative solutions that have allowed musicians to collaborate in ways that they may not have otherwise. I was surprised (though I shouldn’t have been) to hear that Shane Becker of Indian Run music has been busy behind the scenes not only producing his own music but helping other artists in the production end, and is as busy as ever in his home studio.

Although I love and appreciate good music, I know nothing about all of the cables, synthesizers, microphones, and instruments that Shane has carefully organized in his at home studio, but I do know that I find it incredibly tempting not to touch all the buttons. All of the colors and elements and design make them so visually interesting for me, so when he invited me over to help with some images, I told Shane ahead of time to grab his notes + notebooks, and objects that were of personal importance in his music production. I had an idea in my head of how we could make a really bold, graphic type image that would showcase the story behind Shane’s music production and the elements that drive his creativity. We played around with different combinations of objects + instruments and as we moved things around, Shane was actually playing songs that he either had been working on or was just creating on the fly. These are the stories behind the images that make them work + give them soul, and in a way, you can feel the energy of his music in the images. My original vision was the first set of images above, but when I looked back at my contact sheet, I re-worked some of the types to bring in all images of Shane’s hands busy at work, creating art that has so much of his signature on it. Sometimes, when I say to someone, “so I have this idea . . . “, I cringe on the inside because only I can see how amazing this could be! but it’s not always easy to get the idea out of my head and onto a print. In this case, I’m grateful for the trust of a friend, because it turned out exactly how I envisioned it.

Musician journal with film and synthesizer
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home music studio set up and production
music studio producer with golden doodle
a day in the life of a music producer
at home recording studio interior design
hands on music typology environmental portrait
music gear for home studio typology